Soulmate Attraction Workshop tickets now available!


Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us: A Workshop with Cassendre Xavier

Dating & Relationships for the Polyamorous, Recovering, Survivor & Tantric

This facilitated group discussion and popular workshop is open to all interested participants, ages 18+. Save the date and make this a Monday to remember!

Cassendre Xavier is an inspiring author and performing songwriter who has been studying, practicing, writing, and leading workshops on soulmate attraction since 2009.

Monday, September 18th, 2017

6:30pm-8:30pm (Doors open 6:00pm)

The Rotunda

4014 Walnut St

Philadelphia, PA 19104

$20 (Nonrefundable)

The Rotunda is an acclaimed community cultural arts venue in University City/West Philly, Public transportation-accessible to the Market-Frankford Elevated line, buses 21 & 42, and greenline trolleys 11, 13, and 34.


We all want more love, romance, excitement, adventure and fulfillment in our lives. But the examples we see are often of people who aren’t much like us. Anyone can attract healthy love and companionship regardless of physical, financial, or even emotional status. Learn to maximize the positive about yourself, believe in love, and use tools to nurture yourself into a charm-filled life that will attract all good things to you, including romance. Design your own system of values and desires. Believe you can have what you want, design your living space and your social activities to reach your love goals.

Workshop Presentation Style: Facilited Discussion
Topic: Relationships, Romance, Self-Help
Topic: Basic 101 / How To: Yes
Topic: Sexuality: Yes
Topic: Personal Growth: Yes

MORE ABOUT THE FACILITATOR: Cassendre Xavier has been writing the “Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us” series at since 2011, and has presented this popular workshop at the Poly Living Conference in Philadelphia (2015 & 2016), at and Sisterspace Weekend in Darlington, Maryland (2014), and is working on a book of the same title. Cassendre has been living with bipolar and posttraumatic stress disorders her whole life, has been a member of Philadelphia’s LGBT and polyamorous communities since 1991, and from 1996-1999 facilitated Sisters Healing Together, a peer support group for women survivors of incest with a special focus on compulsive overeating, which she also founded, at the William Way LGBT Community Center in Philadelphia. Cassendre is the creator of the popular Affirmations for Survivors guided meditation audio series (“Self-Love” and “Spirituality” were released in 2007; “Sexuality” and “Life Skills” are soon forthcoming). For more information, please visit


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Goddess Sundays: Pregnancy Is a Metaphor

Goddess Sundays
Where every week we explore feminine aspects of the divine.
Pregnancy Is a Metaphor
by Cassendre Xavier
Being able to co-create and carry life within is a highly admired trait often attributed to wimmin and other female beings. But as we now know, one needn’t be female to create or carry life (many offspring-baring species aren’t), and even humyns without typical wombs can now carry life.
 Even before we knew and made these things, the idea of being pregnant was something that goes beyond the ability to make a baby.
 Are you “pregnant with possibility”? We all are!
 Each one of us is gifted with the ability to co-create a thought, an idea, and take action to help make it happen.
 What do you want to bring into your reality?
 What gift(s) do you have to offer the world, or even more importantly, yourself?
 Don’t think that if you are a male or a wombless female that you cannot be in a way pregnant.
 You can!
 Think today about how you can give birth… to a new part of you… to a dream you have not yet spoken… to perhaps maybe even a whole new life of your own.
 Be a blessing to the world by being a blessing to yourself…Make something happen…
 And give birth.
(c) Copyright 2017 by Cassendre Xavier. All rights reserved.
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Ask that the Solution Be Comfortable

When you pray to leave a situation, ask that it happen in a way that is both best and comfortable for everyone involved. -Cassendre XavierIMG_20170418_163839_985

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One Baby Step at a Time (quote pic)


If a humyn can eat an entire bicycle one little piece at a time, you can accomplish your goals and reach your dreams, one baby step at a time.
Cassendre Xavier, Free 24-hour Inspiration Line 215-552-8850



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Happy Enough Right Now


I just wrote this to a collaborator: “I feel really good talking about this! It brings me joy, strength and hope for my future, yet just the doing makes me happy enough right now, even if nothing ever changed for the better. That is how you know you are on the right path and following your bliss!”
May you be blessed with the same, or something better!
Cassendre Xavier (Free, 24-hour Inspiration Line 215-552-8850)

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Singing and Blessing with the Angels

I just sang for and with myself for an hour. The angels were there and we blessed everyone.I-have-sung-for-and-with

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Soulmate Attraction: Don’t Compare Yourself, You are Enough

SOULMATE ATTRACTION: Don’t compare yourself to anyone, whether positive or negative. Everyone has their own unique gifts, strengths, failings and weaknesses. Everyone is perfectly suited for the mates they seek. That means you are enough, and you can relax and focus on living your life with enjoyment and positive expectation!


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